Berasa suntuk abis..kantor hampir kosong..seems like all people have so many leave to spare…except for MEEEE haizzzz

DUN FEEL LIKE WORKING!!!!!!!!!!!!! Arggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

CNY festive feel is almost over and welcome back to reality – pile of work awaiting huhuhu..

Been a bit melo for past few days, maybe the effect of holiday where you can pause a little while from crazy pace in life and reflect back… Though busy, but I feel like I missed out a lot things in life!

When I read the magazine on woman impact other people life, I want to be like one of them!

When I watch TV on those adventurous travels, I want to go and take part!

When I watch TV on volunteer on Haiti disaster, I wish I can take part more than just donating the money…

When I watch discovery channel, I wish I can read and find out more on certain things…

When I saw certain shops have their new outlets opening up, I wish those are mine

Close to heart, I wish I can spent more time with my family, and friends

Well, since this is still beginning of the year, just share this articles from Adam Khoo…. especially for people who yet to set your 2010 goals J

Achieve Your Goals & Change Your Life in 2010

"Make More Money", " Lose Weight", "Be Nicer to Other People", "
Spend More Time With My Family", " Eat More Healthily", 'Start a
Business " etc...

It is a brand new year again and a time when many people see as a
fresh start to set New Years Resolutions. Have you wondered how
many people actually work on, let alone achieve their resolutions?

After coaching and training over 560,000 people in 7 countries and
reading hundreds of emails a month, I can tell you that more than
90% of people never achieve their goals and make the changes they
want in their life. So, if you have experienced this in the past,
you are not alone.

So, why do so many people fail at keeping their resolutions,
achieve their goals and make the changes they want in life? Here
are three main reasons

Reason #1: Vague, Unspecific Goals

Solution: Get Clear on What You Want

The goals people set are often vague and non-specific. They set
goals like ' to lose weight' or 'to make more money'. When you are
vague, you will never get what you want. It is often said that
CLARITY IS POWER. You need to set specific, measurable outcomes so
your mind knows exactly what to do and what needs to be done to get
it.

For example, set goals like 'to lose 10kg in 90 days and to weigh
exactly 48 kg'. When you are specific, you can then develop a plan
on how many calories to consume a meal and how many hours you need
to work out on a treadmill to burn 'X' calories per day.

When you set a clear goal like 'to increase my income from
$4,000month to $$10,000 a month in 5 months. You are clear that you
have to build an extra income stream (s) of $6,000. You can
possible develop a plan to earn an extra $2,000 from Internet
marketing/ads from blogs, another $2,000 from trading FOREX and
another $2,000 from doing part-time commissioned sales/tuition.

Reason #2: Lack of Consistent Focus

Solution: Focus on What You Want Daily

The second reason many people don't get what they want is because
they write a goal down, put it aside and forget about it until a
year later. In the meantime, they get distracted and caught up with
the daily struggles and demands of life.

What has really helped me is that I write my goals down on large
pieces of Poster sized paper and stick it near my workstation, in
my bedroom and in my office. I even design my goals onto my
computer desktop wallpaper. This way, the goals are constantly IN
MY FACE and ON MY MIND 18 hours a day. This makes me constantly
remind myself to move towards my goals and to act in a way which I
want.

Reason #3: Interest But Not a Commitment

Solution: Make a Public Commitment

Let's face it. Many of us think of goals we would LIKE to achieve.
We think it will be NICE to have. However, often times, it is not a
strong COMMITMENT to MUST do it. As human beings, we are also great
at breaking promises to ourselves and we start to justify. "I know
I said I would lose weight but it's just too difficult so
never mind, Nobody will know anyway' is the common thought.

If you want to make things happen in your life, you have to make
goals a COMMITMENT by putting yourself on the line. Make it very
hard for you to turn back. What I often do is when I set a goal
(e.g. recently I set a goal of writing a book 'Secrets of
Successful Teens', I make a PUBLIC COMMITMENT by announcing it to
my friends,family, facebook, BLOG and pretty much everyone I meet.

When you keep talking and announcing what you must do and change,
your brain will give you no choice but to do it. This is a tough
thing to do, but IT WORKS. So, my challenge to you is to announce
your goals on my blog (under comments) so you are committed to make
it happen.

Reason #4: Lack of Personal Power

Solution: Take Charge of Your Mind and Tale Action

The last thing that stops people from success is that they do not
take action. They don't use their personal power to get the results
they want. What stops them from taking action are things like FEAR,
PROCRASTINATION, SELF-DOUBT, LAZINESS etc...

You have to understand that you are in control of your own thoughts
and emotions, Using techniques like NLP, you can learn how to
control your mind and direct your focus to motivate yourself and
break through negative habits and behavioral patterns. You have to
learn NLP to develop focus and drive yourself to take massive
action to get the results you want.

It's been awhile since my last posting. Biar ngga dibilang habis married ngga pernah nge-blog lagi (langsung lirik ke Bombie**)..makanya gua langsung nulis deh nih blog..sekalian kill time dikantor..ups…udah lewat jam kantor sih..cuman orang2 kok masi pada *keliatannya* sibuk..apa sok sibuk kaya gua ngetik blog lewat Words? Hehe

Anyway, to reflect back on year 2009, I was wondering what have I accomplished? Besides all those crazy wedding preparation (that took almost half year to prepare and gone in 1 day), house hunting, furniture hunting, hm..looks like 2009 is more on Personal accomplishment, not much from Work I can say. Ministry? Not much..except I want to count in 10-weeks Kids ministry (1 more week to GO..I guess we are the longest ever couple to complete these 10weeks mission, we started in Aug and gosh..now it is Jan haha)

For year 2010? To be frank, I have yet to find my new year resolution huhuhu..well..hm..perhaps..to have my own business…I'm kind of sick and tired of working…pls don't tell my boss hahaha